“Dare To Be You” is a broad overview of my life – Author Lynette Diehm

Studio Carry On Harry invited book author and life coach Lynette Diehm to share her life experience’s and her journey into writing her new book “Dare To Be You “. Here is what she shared to  answers of questions to  studio host Harry Johal

About You and Your background?

I am a certified Advanced Practitioner of Coaching.

I have studied and read books on psychology, body language, holistic healing, cognitive therapy, acceptance therapy, positive psychology, evidence-based coaching, alternative therapy, neural linguist programming, hypnotherapy, meta dynamics, nutrition, mental health first aid.

I am certified in bach flower essences, crystal healing and am also a reiki master. I am certified personal trainer.

I have many certifications and qualifications in Project management and a cert four in small business management.

I have overcome the following and am the best person to help others overcome these things
• Psychological verbal, sexual abuse, abduction, and rape
• Sexual harassment, bullying, and discrimination
• Emotional abandonment
• Relationships with abusers, manipulators, and narcissists
• Being betrayed and taken advantage of by those closest to me
• Ageism, Rejection, Sexism
• Death of loved ones and pets
• Internet dating scam, book writing and publishing scams, cryptocurrency scams, business mentoring scams, business coaching scams
• Parental favouritism
• Company takeovers and restructures and losing my job
• Working for people who felt threatened by me
• Having social anxiety, anxiety that is triggered by financial pressure, depression, stressed, nervousness, over whelming fear
• Interview discrimination for being the wrong gender
• Having the following fears: singing aloud, dancing in public, heights, and public speaking
• Being a people pleaser, as I felt like I was not loved, enough or belonged
• A pandemic with numerous restrictions and lock downs
• Cervical cancer and an ovarian cyst

Through tenacity, intuition, and a realization that my life had to change I overcame all the above and made a success of my life. The chief purpose of me sharing my life story in this book “Dare To Be You,” is to inspire the readers to bounce back and roll forward from adversity and recover the lives that they are destined to live.
I have worked in the corporate world for 22 years and three years ago discovered a passion to author books and coach people.

My future includes other books, public speaking and online programs that help people to be true to themselves, outstanding in life and unstoppable with relationships.

I have also owned a personal training and lifestyle mentoring business which worked with building up the confidence of women who have been abused. In my spare time, I enjoy tearing up the dance floor with salsa dancing and jumping out of airplanes, facing my fear of heights.
Philanthropy is one of my passions and I hope to make a difference in the lives of children, orphans, and women. Through my books, I hope to inspire readers to live their lives fully, joyfully with meaning and purpose to their maximum potential.

I now own and run a personal transformation coaching business and I really enjoy coaching and making a difference in people. Helping people see that they have more than the few options they see and how they can transform their lives. Here is the link to my Websites testimonials page to see what my clients think of my coaching: https://daretobeyou.net.au/dare-to-be-you-testimonials/

Title Of Your New Release

Dare To Be You: Break free from the shackles fo the past to become yourself, outstanding and unstoppable!

What is the background story of your book ?

“Dare To Be You®” is a broad overview of my life and the trials and tribulations I went through to become the person I am today.
To get to where I am today, I had to turn my life completely upside down. I have had to learn how to replace my limiting beliefs with empowering beliefs and face my fears head on. In doing so, I have drag myself out of the depths of depression from several traumatic experiences I have lived through.

I wrote each chapter in this book as reflections/memories of past events in my life. In this book, I reveal the Holistic Health Support System I put together over several years that has strengthened me and helped me to endure and overcome fears, trauma and limiting beliefs that were developed because of these traumatic events in the past. In authoring this book, I hope to inspire you as the reader to be proactive and take action to overcome the traumatic experiences you have previously or are still experiencing in your life today.

The Holistic Health Support System within this book will give you as the reader several holistic ways to become healthier, more positive, even more than that, stand up in your own truth and power for what you believe in to “Dare To Be You” in all aspects of your private and professional life. The system in this book is a guideline on the tools you can use to create a Holistic Health Support System of your own that will strengthen and support you during turbulent times and is not for the fainthearted who want a shortcut to changing their lives as it will take time, effort, and discipline to completely transform your life. If you are willing to invest the time and effort in changing your life, then I encourage you to buy and read a copy of my book “Dare To Be You”.

 

What approach have you followed to narrate it ?

I have structured this book with small easy to read chapters. Each chapter is of one of the darkest, traumatic, and memorable events of my life. These events start from the age for five to modern day March 2022 which is 40 years of traumatic experiences. I believe these chapters of my life will inspire and motivate people to move forwards and overcome adversity in their lives so that they can become themselves, Outstanding in life and Unstoppable with relationships. These events are from my personal, professional, and business life. Each chapter has an original quote for a chapter setter and are also written in first person language. I had people check my book over for legalities and to help with the editing and designing of my book.

 

When you say real story it may need lot of things to expose ? Did you really dare to bare ?

I absolutely did dare to bare. It is raw and heart felt book. I put countless time, passion and thought into authoring my book. I am not a writer that has much of an imagination, and I can only write from experience and from the heart. There is no better way to face your demons and confront your past than to write about it truthfully and learn from it.

Do you structure the flow of concept before writing or was it a sort of memoire?

 

I had something in mind before I began drafting my book as I had already authored articles on my life and published them on social media and got great reviews and comments on them. This was what built up my confidence in writing up to the point that I could draft my book on my own. I structured my book on my memories, thoughts, and lessons I gained throughout the 45 years of my life and the tools I used to get me through the traumatic events of my life. These tools ended up being put together to form my Holistic Health Support System that transformed my life and made me the success I am today.

 

As an author what was objective of writing the book ? Normally people would like to forget bad things and move on ?

 

As per the above my objective of writing my book is to inspire you as the reader to take action to overcome the traumatic experiences you have previously or are still experiencing in your life today by giving you the tools you need to overcome your fears, replace your limiting beliefs and empower you to live, stand in and speak your truth removing the societal and cultural masks that people wear every day to please others.
The experiences of my life will inspire people to create their own Holistic Health Support System which will strengthen and empower them to break free from the shackles of the past to become their truest form of themselves, Outstanding in life and Unstoppable with relationships. My book shows people that they are not alone in what they are going through and that they can make it through those time and that they should never to give up on themselves and their lives.

The Holistic Health Support System in my book is a guideline on the tools people can use to create a Holistic Health Support System that will strengthen and support them when going through turbulent times. It is not for the fainthearted who want a shortcut to changing their lives as it will take time, effort, and discipline to completely transform their lives, but it is well worth it.

 

How do you see the incidents behind your life ? Turning Point / Becoming What You are today ?

They taught me how to be tenacious and resilient and how to roll forward from turbulence and learn the lessons I need to so that I could break the repetitive negative cycles that were holding me back from success and making me miserable. They also taught me how to stand on my own two feet in life. I am now a successfully tenacious, resilient, intelligent woman who leads by example and coach’s others on how to stand, speak and live in their truth so that they can reach their true potential.

 

Anything that changed within you ? Do you see it as positive change ?

I learnt to be my truest self through the negative experiences. It took me a breakdown and hitting rock bottom with depression to realize I needed to transform my life holistically and I am glad I did. It also helped me develop my coaching framework the (HBFK) Hope, Belief, Faith, and Knowledge/trust model coaching framework which is unique to my coaching business.
These experiences led me down the path of self-exploration and personal development that helped me change my mind set to uncover the many hidden options and choices I would not have been able to uncover without having lived through them. I learnt through these experience that I am far more capable of doing things and that fear is a challenge/obstacle to overcome in life to make me a better person. My perspective on a lot of things in life changed because I went through the rough times and lived to learn the lessons and base my book on them.

Why will you recommend this book to readers ?

My book has a holistic health support system in it that is uniquely designed to get people through traumatic events so that they can develop the strength, tenacity and resilience needed to get through just about anything traumatic that life has thrown at them.
My book is a one stop shop as it includes a range of different traumatic events from my personal, professional, and business life and there is something in it for everyone. My Book is a combination of memoirs and holistic self-help chapters that will inspire and motivate people to act when they are feeling trapped or stuck in life with all these traumatic events happen to them. this book will show people going through these sorts of traumatic events that they are not alone and that you heal through sharing those experiences with others taking ownership of their lives and transforming their lives.
My book will inspire the readers to take ownership of their lives (decisions, thought, feelings, actions, and reaction) by giving them a unique perspective on their lives and who they are as people.
I would say my book has something in it for everyone!

 

Have you already started working on next book ? What is on your mind for it ?

I have already created the Dare To Be You – Gratitude Diary which people can sign up for free to download form my website.
I am completing my 2023 Wall calendar.
I plan to also divide my first book into two books one with the memoirs an the other with the self-help tools like a workbook. I have plans to create three different Dare To Be You quotes books in the future.

Any good tips about life challenges?

You must want to help yourself before anyone else can help you and this means taking action and not talking or thinking about it too much. To truly transform your life it takes time, money, and effort so you must be willing to invest in yourself and your future and to do what it takes to change.

Anything that you feel you need to express and reach out to the world about your experiences?

To truly be happy and successful in life you must never give up hope, always push through the traumatic events and obstacles that are put in your path. If I can get through these events on my own so, can you. If you feel you cannot, then reach out to me via my website for some coaching. Have three coaching programs and exclusive offers that can help you. I can also tailor a program to suit your needs. Nothing is too hard to overcome and move forward from if you have the correct tools (Holistic Health Support System) and mindset to aid and support you in moving forward.
True transformation is an internal job, and you must really want to change and do what it takes to change. If you do not change then your life will stay the same.
Here is a quote I created years ago that rings true
“Change your lifestyle before your lifestyle changes you “

There will never be a more perfect time than now to step outside your comfort zone and take action to transform your life. Your dream life is just around the corner if you believe in yourself and what you are capable of and can accomplish. We all have the power within us to change all it takes is that first step outside your comfort zone to be able to see that. Humans are remarkable in what we can do and get through when we put our minds to it believe in ourselves and take action. We are limitless what we can accomplish. Do you Dare To Be YOU NOW? If the answer is yes, then the first step is to buy my book.

Book title: Dare To Be You
Book subtitle: Break free from the shackles of the past to become yourself, outstanding and unstoppable!

How did you hear about CarryOnHarry ? Any message for Studio ? Any Suggestion that we can make it better ?

It is the strangest thing as I got Facebook message about and interview with CaryOnHarry. I would have to say it was fate.

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